Wondering What to Say to a Woman?

After going up to a girl to start a conversation, there are a couple of things you can say to the woman to keep things going well.

Here are some tips that will spice up your conversations with girls. Note:  Set aside a minute to let it click with you that she is her own person before you try this.

Don’t make everything too easy for her. Keep her on her toes. Make her put a bit of effort in. Occasionally girls will try to test you. These times are excellent for flipping the script and testing her back. Most men will respond to a girl’s tests by trying to prove that they are manly or by trying to appease her. Both of these are a turn off. You are only hurting yourself.

When you find yourself in this predicament, do one of two things. If she asks you something like how old you are or what your job is, you can either:

First, you can ask her “What has you asking that?”  This only comes off well if you’re genuine.  Otherwise you’ll just look like a jerk. This is a chance for you to get to the bottom of the real question.

In case you didn’t notice that, you answer questions with questions. Don’t do this too often or you risk looking like you are hiding something.

Second, you can tell her something that is clearly not true, but will come off as funny. Try to make it something as pathetic as possible. The dumber it is, the better. It will highlight the fact that you are comfortable enough in your own skin to not take yourself too seriously. The majority of guys are not brave enough to tell a woman that they’ve never even kissed a woman. When you pull this off and it’s clear that you are merely kidding around with her, she will start to see you as confident and smooth. If you don’t know what to say to a girl, you can always try something that will make her laugh.

Additionally, try to flirt a little during your conversation. If you don’t let her know that you are attracted to her, she may begin to see you platonically. Probably not your goal. It doesn’t have to be a enormous challenge to let a woman know you’re into her. Don’t attempt to think up some choreographed explaination about why the two of you are made for each other. That is just bad. Simply continue talking with her until she says something that you are really impressed with. Then say something such as, “It’s really sexy how you care so much for your friends,” or “You are really turning me on when you speak Spanish like that.”

Don’t even be concerned about it being logical. It can be a little out there. Actually, it’s better if is seems a bit funny.

I hope you picked up a few pointers on what to say to a woman. This isn’t very complex. Let it be fun and uplifting.

If you liked this article, please also take a look at How to Talk to Women, How to Chat with Girls, and How to Get a Woman’s Phone Number