The Quality Of Keeper: What Women Really Want

I know what women are looking for in a man because I am a woman who has found what she is looking for. Of all the men that I have had in my life, this man has all the qualities of a keeper, unlike the others before him. Women should base their ideal man around my keeper.

One of most important qualities that my man has is his true masculinity. However, he still respects women completely and whole heartedly. He can be with his friends, and act completely macho, but still comes home to me and treats me with respect and compassion.

A real keeper does things not because he has to, but because he wants to. He listens to your needs. He does little things to make you feel special, like a card for no reason, rubbing your feet, and calling you “just because.”

A real man knows the importance of a real woman. A keeper will respect your opinion. He will come to his partner if he need direction, and he doesn’t feel emasculated when the woman is right. He takes pride in having a woman with some intellectual merit, and he doesn’t feel the need to make his woman feel less important than him.

Of course, all of the above are null and void if then man is brainless. As women, we have the need to be well understood. If you bore us in a conversation, and we can’t rely on you for sound advice, then we will have to get it elsewhere.

A real keeper is fluent in all of the languages of love, and he doesn’t need to be reminded. He has a keen sense of what is expected from him, and you do not have to remind him. He buys gifts without hints, he takes you out without being asked, and he stays one step ahead of all of your emotional needs.

Overall, a real man is not afraid of becoming Your Man because he knows he can belong to you and still be himself. He can use his knowledge of woman to really get to know you - really get to know you.

So, take it from a woman who has found her man. We are not looking for a man’s man or a macho man. We are looking for our man - the one treats like the queens we are and enjoys doing it.