How To Win Her Back - With A Few Solid Psychological Tactics
Have you recently broke up and you’ve reached the conclusion you can’t live without her? If you’re wanting to learn how to win her back then my advice is take control with psychological tactics. A few people may frown on the use of tactics like these, but who cares what they think. The important thing is to win her back.
Most people are blind to it but we are manipulated almost every day by psychological tactics. The whole world is at it in some form or other, two big culprits are governments and the advertising industry. Take the employee of the month competition. You don’t win anything other than bragging right but the overall production goes up.
Get her to call you without asking
It works like this, we love getting letters, don’t we? As long as they aren’t bills! You send her a handwritten note. You tell her how good things are for you right now and that you would like to thank her.
This works in two ways. First she’s curious and then comes the pride. She gets curios about the “thank you” bit, but then the pride takes over when she thinks she must have done something good. She will be curious enough to call you. She needs to know why you would thank her. Of course the reason you say is that the split has down you the world of good.
Of course the real reason for the letter was to get her to call you. If you play this one right you can eventually have her believe she made first contact with you again. After all, you never once asked her to call you in the letter. The fact is the letter weaved its magic and she did as expected, she called you back.
You can get hold of the exact letter to send later. I’ll show you where. And some other tricks like this.
Play on her good memories
You can use her favourite things to further your quest to win her back. If for instance you know what her all time fav song is, you can use this. Food and smells are good as well.
When she calls after you send the letter make sure she can just about hear her fav song in the background. Her subconscious then starts to link her favourite song with you, as those are the most recent memories of her hearing the song. She loves the song. She heard it while on the phone to you. Her subconscious links the nice feelings together.
Curious jealousy
If you can arrange a night out with a few friends, be seen to be having fun. But more importantly you engineer it so that she also knows you had a great time.
Don’t go out on a 1 to 1 date as this may well scare her off completely. But a friends night out will make her feel a bit jealous as she was left out. She will expect you to be still mourning her but here she finds you out & about enjoying yourself. This can work by making her feel she should be part of the fun.
There you have three little psychological tricks to help you to win her back. Yes a few people will look down their nose at using them but they are harmless and no serious damage will be done. But using these tips on their own will likely lead nowhere.
You need to be using them as part of an overall master plan to win her back. Without a decent system to follow chances are you will just screw the whole job up.
Have a look at what I think are the best couple systems to help you to win her back at my website…