Get Your Ex Back - Avoid These 5 Things Like The Plague

If you are having a hard time getting over a recent breakup. There are a couple thing that you simply must not do if you have designs to get your ex back. Most people fall into the trap of doing these no-no’s and ruin any chance they have.

1 - Do not lie about your ex

This one will kill any chances of getting your ex back stone dead. If they were spreading lies about you, how would you feel about that? I know I would be gutted. If that happened to me there’s no way I’m getting back with my ex.

2 - Trying to make your ex feel jealous

Although this can work to a certain extent if used right. But it won’t work when you’ve just broke up and you are clearly in bits and they know you will try anything to get your ex back. You can easily get the wrong reaction here, instead of a little jealousy they may just feel disgust and decide it’s over for ever.

3 - Behaving like a stalker

Do I really need to say anything at all about this one? I do, ok then. At best you are going to come across as needy and clingy, which isn’t going to help. At worst you can come across as dangerous and frightening, which could lead to the law being involved which will most definitely kill any chance you have.

4 - Getting revenge on your ex

If you are harbouring thoughts of revenge then you must ask yourself how badly you want to get your ex back. Getting revenge in any way shape or form on your ex must mean you don’t really love them as much as you claim to. If you love someone you wouldn’t hurt them.

5 - Calling & texting constantly

Now even though this could fall into the stalker bracket it’s a different ball game altogether. Constantly pestering your ex with texts and calls could be deemed as a form of torture. This is not the look you are going for. They may just ignore your calls but they may take it further and change their number. Then you’ve lost them forever.

So there we have a handful of things to not do if you have any designs on getting your ex back. There are many things you can do to increase your chances but alas these aren’t them

Take a bit of advice and spend some time getting yourself in the right frame of mind to move forward with your plan. With your emotions under control you give yourself every chance of steering your ex back to you.

When I went through a breakup and wanted to get my wife back I turned to a system that was so easy to follow it was like painting by numbers, but this was getting my ex back by numbers.

Getting your ex back is a choice, not a chance.