Get Your Ex Back - 5 Things That Will Wreck Your Chances

If you can’t quite come to terms with your recent split and are suffering. You need to avoid any of these things if you desire to get your ex back. Many people kill any chance they have of getting back together by doing one or more of the following.

1 - Telling lies to others about your ex

This one will kill any chances of getting your ex back stone dead. Put the shoe on the other foot and think how you would cope with your ex telling everyone lies about you. I certainly wouldn’t like it. And as far as I was concerned my recent ex is definitely going to stay that way…my ex!

2 - Trying to make your ex feel jealous

Now, this can work to your advantage under certain circumstances. But jumping straight in after a breakup and trying to make them jealous will just make them feel all the more distant from you. This can go wrong in a big way. You try for jealousy and you get disgust and them deciding that it was a good decision to split.

3 - Stalking your ex

Do I really need to say anything at all about this one? I do, ok then. Best case scenario, you look like a sad desperate lonely person, they now realise breaking up was a good move. The worst you can be seen is downright frightening and potentially dangerous. This could easily lead to an arrest and I don’t think I need to tell you what that’ll do for your chances.

4 - Getting revenge on your ex

If you are harbouring thoughts of revenge then you must ask yourself how badly you want to get your ex back. You can’t love your ex as much as you think if you are planning some kind of revenge. If you love someone you won’t hurt them, period.

5 - Text pest

Now even though this could fall into the stalker bracket it’s a different ball game altogether. You could seriously drive your ex round the bend with this text torture. The last thing you want is to be seen as a text pest. Best case scenario they ignore the calls, worst case they change their number. Then you’ve screwed any chance of future contact.

So, we now know a few things not to do if you want to get your ex back. Some things will increase the odds in your favour but they aren’t them, so avoid them.

A good bit of advice is to take a bit of time to get your head together and formulate a proper plan. If you are in control of your emotions you give yourself a greater chance to get your ex back.

When I split & wanted to get my wife back I turned to a step by step system that was so easy to follow a child could have done it.

Getting your ex back is a choice, not a chance.