Get Your Ex Back - 5 Mistakes You Must Not Make

If you are having a hard time getting over a recent breakup. There are a couple thing that you simply must not do if you have designs to get your ex back. Most people fall into the trap of doing these no-no’s and ruin any chance they have.

1 - Do not lie about your ex

This one will kill any chances of getting your ex back stone dead. If they were spreading lies about you, how would you feel about that? I know I would be gutted. If my ex were telling lies about me then that would be the end of it, for good.

2 - Getting your ex to be a bit jealous

This tactic can work if you know what you are doing and when to use it. But jumping straight in after a breakup and trying to make them jealous will just make them feel all the more distant from you. This can backfire big time. The jealousy you are looking for may turn to revulsion and they then know it’s over for good.

3 - Behaving like a stalker

Do we even need to discuss this one? But just in case we do. The best you can hope for is to be seen as desperate and needy. That doesn’t help you at all. The worst you can be seen is downright frightening and potentially dangerous. This could easily lead to an arrest and I don’t think I need to tell you what that’ll do for your chances.

4 - Getting revenge on your ex

If you are even thinking of extracting any sort of revenge on your ex, you gotta ask yourself if you really want to get back together. Getting revenge in any way shape or form on your ex must mean you don’t really love them as much as you claim to. If you love someone you wouldn’t hurt them.

5 - Pestering them with calls or texts

Being a text pest is nearly as bad as being a stalker. Calling and texting constantly can be seen as a form of mental torture. Trust me this is not how you wanna come across. Best case scenario they ignore the calls, worst case they change their number. Then you’ve screwed any chance of future contact.

You now know a few things to avoid doing if you have desires to get your ex back. Some things will increase the odds in your favour but they aren’t them, so avoid them.

A good bit of advice is to take a bit of time to get your head together and formulate a proper plan. If you are in control of your emotions you give yourself a greater chance to get your ex back.

When I went through a breakup and wanted to get my wife back I turned to a system that was so easy to follow it was like painting by numbers, but this was getting my ex back by numbers.

Getting your ex back should be your choice, and not left to fate.