Beat the Other Woman and Keep Him Wanting You
You are worried that your boyfriend or husband is beginning to think way too much about one of those sweet young things in the other pasture (at the office, the gym, the local vegetarian diner, . . .). You know the grass isn’t really greener over there, but are you confident your lover knows that, too? Now is the time to make sure he sees how much better in all ways you are than that “Other Woman” his eyes and mind keep drifting to. Learn to beat the other woman now so you aren’t asking “how can I fix my broken heart?” a month from now.
Take a fresh look in the mirror and see yourself as men see you. Men respond to visual stimuli when it comes to women and sex. It is perfectly natural for a man to watch with appreciation as a pretty woman goes by, and you can use that natural instinct to your own advantage. Surprise him by putting some extra thought into all those fun and artistic ways you can grab his eye. First, you have to please yourself. If you feel attractive, you will be attractive.
Is it a new hairstyle or a new color lipstick, or maybe a new style of clothes? It doesn’t have to be dramatic but it might be. Try covering what you usually expose or exposing what you usually cover up. Experiment with wearing colors you don’t usually wear. Surprise your man by dressing up when he doesn’t expect it, or dressing down in a deliberately sexy style. Make sure he sees that the place he wants to be is on your side of the fence where the grass is very fine, indeed!
Looks are not everything, even for men. A man likes to be interested in his life companion even when his eyes tend to wander to potential air-headed arm candy. Show your lover that you can be an intriguing friend and partner in both mind and body. Surprise him with your comments on a book he would not expect you to read. Suggest to him that you go to a place he least expects, maybe a film that is neither chick flick nor action movie, or maybe to a play or a museum that he least expects you to suggest.
And, don’t forget about sex. You can re-ignite the sparks between the two of you by surprising him with a little experimentation. Doing it the same way every time might be very, very good, but adding some variety with creative sex positions will really light his fire.
Of course the physical aspects of your relationship are important, but so are the mental aspects. Engage your man in debate, conversation and serious opinions about both serious and stupid topics. Surprise him with what you are going to want to talk about next. Sometimes, surprise him with silence. Sometimes saying nothing is more noticeable than chatter.
These are only a few ideas to make sure you will always beat the other woman. If you want more tips on how to keep or relationship strong, or if you are afraid you are heading for a breakup and want to patch things up, see what a real expert has to say about the art of keeping your love alive.